Well this is quite the situation…
I leave the office for 10 min and My Fiancée (Amanda) decides to steal the show!!
Well ya’ll are in for a treat this week! Amanda decided to hop on and share a few tips for the ladies tuning in (men pay attention) to learn how to “Ask for what you want and Get what you need” in your relationships!
There are a few super simple tips that you can use to immediately get your man to WANT to take action in helping you and one MAJOR thing you must stop immediately (ladies we all do it) that cause your man literally to avoid helping and actually resent you.
First, lets start with the obvious…
Ladies, Men cannot read our minds!!!! As much as we wish they could, and would some times, they cant!
So… here are a few tips to help you ask for what you want, and get what you need:
- Focus on what they ARE already doing for you. Even just the smallest gestures deserve acknowledgement, gratitude and praise. When a man feels that he can make you happy through his participation it will cause him to want to be even more involved.
- Be VERY CLEAR in asking for what you want or need. Also make sure to tell them how it is going to make you feel when they step up and help you solve the problem/situation.
Well you’ll have to watch the video to find out the rest… Its the one MAJOR thing you must stop immediately (ladies we all do it) that cause your man literally to avoid helping and actually resent you.