During the holidays, it seems we get more questions about relationships and work/business issues than ever.
This time of year comes with a lot of fun but also for many added pressure, family obligations, work obligations, financial obligations, people put their health goals to the side and then the whole season culminates with into one BIG Freakout!
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
The mindset around your problems is the differentiator in all these situations. You need to be able to identify what is a Normal Problem vs an Abnormal Problem – so you can react accordingly. What is worth the Freak Out!?
If it is widely known that the #1 reason couple disagree on is Money – then why is this considered and Abnormal Problem? It’s not – in reality, if its known to be a Normal Problem for couples, this now makes it an opportunity for you to CHOOSE how you are going to react, by choosing to come together and plan. What’s the budget this year for gifts, what are we willing to compromise or not compromise this holiday season? Coming together, choosing to get on the same page about a normal problem that most couples have, is how you STOP the freak out in this area.
However, if for instance in business, you have someone in your organization that is embezzling money, that IS an Abnormal Problem and worth a little bit of Freak Out. Let’s not get crazy, but spring in into action, finding the legal ways to protect yourself and your company. This is worth that energy; finding the solution to this very abnormal problem.
To your success,